Apektado

Affected ako. It happened after I logged on to my friendster account this morning.

I check out who's viewed me and I see a couple of unfamiliar names. Of course I check it out di ba?

So I clicked on Candice. Up close, I discover that the guy beside her is my ex. Ah hah! She's checking me out. I don't have a problem with that. Although it qualifies as an ah hah moment. Smirking here.

I do have a little problem with my ex removing me from his list of friends. Yup, I scan through my list of friends and discover that he is gone. I have a nagging feeling that his girlfriend complained about me and his other exes being in his list of friends. I would know. I used to be like that with one particular whore, err bitch, err girl.

Its just sad because I thought we (my ex and I) were finally on the right track. The track defined as, we acknowledge that we know each other but were not talking because were not ready to be friends yet.

It sucks but its nice to know there's someone a bit more insecure than I am.

Kapag Walang Manok At Naiinip

It’s Saturday morning. At this time, I should be making fried chicken for today’s Christmas Party. I went to two different groceries in Antipolo last night, and both didn’t have chicken drumstick. What kind of grocery is that? I’m patiently working on this dial up connection while I’m waiting for my chicken to arrive from the market.

This is a good way to kill time.

I was doing my regular stalking in Friendster earlier and I discovered a few interesting things (to me at least). I saw that my male friend has already broken up with his girlfriend. It wasn’t announced in their shout outs but I’m keen on testimonials and profile status. Let’s name them for my convenience, shall we?

Tyra and Deacon weren’t together that long, but they were quite a popular couple. Tyra broke up with a long time boyfriend to be with Deacon. Deacon has gorgeous kids from a previous marriage. Tyra still has pictures in Friendster with Deacon’s kids. She quite looks like an overdressed Inday next to Deacon’s kids (their fair and cute, and she’s… got a great body). Anyway, as of this time, they are wishing each other the best and remain friends. According to Tyra, if they are meant to be, than it shall be.

Tyra is not my favorite person in the world, but it must be hard for her to be with Deacon. In this country, there is still a stigma attached to being the girlfriend of a married man (even if he and his wife have parted ways). To Tyra, you have a beautiful body, lots of single guys would surely want to be with you. Choose wisely.

Pepper and Popoy had been going out since college. Popoy is the kind of boyfriend who picks up his girlfriend every single day so she could safely get home. In her blog, Pepper said that she will love her luvy until hell freezes. After years of being together, they did what most couples would envy. They tried their luck and flew to the Middle East thinking that this would be a new chapter in their lives. After less than a year, Pepper is "in a relationship," and Popoy is "single." Before this, they were both “married” in Friendster. Their old pictures together have been removed from Pepper’s account. Pepper is now the Queen of her new Egyptian King. Poor Popoy.

Pepper must be tired of being an independent woman. She seems to be very happy with her new regal lifestyle. I pity Popoy, but you go girl! I didn’t imagine someone with your looks would snag royalty. Obviously you’re smart.

Chicken’s here.

Exes & Ohs

Meet Darla. She’s Denver’s super ex-girlfriend. She is now married to some South African national. I am writing about her because she just viewed my profile in Friendster. What is wrong with these people? Why don’t they turn anonymous viewing on?

Okay. Guilty. Yes, you can accuse me of doing the same pathetic thing. But at least I have the sense to turn on anonymous viewing, or I check profiles without logging on to my account. That way they’ll never know. Smart, ey?

Anyway, seeing Mrs. South Africa checking me out brings back old memories. According to Denver’s short version of it, a long time ago, she called him before dawn (overseas from Dubai), frantic, asking him why he knocked me up? Friendster was, once again, the culprit. She checked his profile and found out that he was about to be a father.

I don’t get why people are so bothered by things that should no longer affect them. At that time, Mrs. South Africa was still a Miss, however, she was thousands of air miles away from Denver, engaged to the dashing Mr. South Africa (sarcastic), and had absolutely no claiming power over my beau. Crazy, right?


Meet Deedee. She is also one of Denver’s ex-girlfriends (but he denies it from time to time). I also saw her checking me out. She is now pregnant. And I must say that her fiancé is quite a looker (unlike the dashing Mr. South Africa who reminds me of the villain in Lazy Town). He is too good looking for her wide jaw if you want my opinion.


Meet Tiny. Denver’s first love. A Sharon Cuneta look-a-like in her day (according to Denver). No, I did not catch her viewing me in Friendster. She’s the smartest one among the bunch. I did see her blog though, and she had a short entry about Denver’s fatherhood. What’s it to her anyway? But honestly, she seems to be more sensible than most of Denver’s exes. Oh, I’m singling out Deedee too. Call me partial, but my basis for sensible or smart may need validation. I review the profile (or blog) of the character in question, and if there aren’t too many grammatical errors, then they are candidates for sensible and smart.

Okay, so Tiny and Deedee, don’t need to go back to grammar school, unlike Mrs. South Africa, The Whore (I think you know who I’m talking about), and some of his Friendster chicks who in their quarter lives, still need coaching on the proper use of conjunctions.

Examples:

1. I have no interest with your husband.
2. Are you interested of buying a car?
3. Me: Feeling ka. Mag-ano ba kayo ni Denver?
Her: Asked him.

Others: (My Favorite)

noki,
hi hope everything is well...ive just read ur updated
profile...and ano yan may baby ka na ba?
COngRatUlaTioNs!!!im happy for you...me im going
home on september with grant bec were going to
get married already..actually we're already
planniing things and saving up money for the
expenses...i have something to ask you nga
pla...uve been to boracay right?how much did it
cost u for everything like top to bottom from the
transport and accomodation and how long have
you been there? pls tell me the details i need it so
badly....and if its ok for you kung paminsan minsan
ill ask a little favor form you just informations?
thanks!!!congats again send my greetings to ur GF
and soon to be baby with all my love...darla

Enough bashing. I’m already in better spirits just writing all that. What’s my point really? It’s funny how all women have the same bad habits. I just admitted that I am as guilty as them when it comes to checking out Friendster profiles. Why do we keep doing it though? Do we think that we are a threat to each other? Or do we just like comparing ourselves to each other? So many silly questions… What does his ex look like? Is she sexy, barok, miserable, happy, bitter? I’m sure we all have similar questions.

I think it’s part of our human nature to have great interest in the lives of people who shared themselves with the person we love. (Maybe this is not so apparent among the male species. But then they’re too egotistical to admit having interest in their partner’s past.)

Let’s admit it girls. Women are crazy, foolish and naturally chismosa. And it’s perfectly normal.

Post Script

Example 1 is a text message sent to me by an eGS TOIC
Example 2 is also a text message sent to Denver by an eGS TOIC
Example 3 is a text message sent to me by a Teacher (married to a foreigner)
The letter is from Mrs. South Africa (married to a foreigner)

Just Moved In

erI've been wanting to start a blog here for around a year now. Everybody else has migrated from blogs.friendster.com. I think its a bit more exciting to reveal intimate details when the world doesn't know so much about you. When I blog at friendster, I am still cautious. Now I can be free and foolish without having to worry too much.

My friendster blog: http://bebot168.blogs.friendster.com/