I am always invisible in YM. I changed my status to available and got to chat with Jover.
He may be posting photos of where he has been but he is very lonely. While his wife is at work, he has nothing to do and nowhere to go. No friends or relatives to hang out with, no one to help him look for a job. Its just him and his laptop in a big house.
If my relatives weren't 5 hours away from him, I'd have them pick him up so that he won't be alone.
I am happy that my family abroad have each other. I have an entire village of relatives in California. And even if Rambi goes away to Alaska or Kyrgyzstan, he has friends and a troop to keep him occupied.